a game of you

and loves dares you to change our way of
caring about ourselves.
-Queen

many times in life we are focused on what we want. what problems we are facing and what can we do. what we want to have, to eat, to do.. it's mostly about ourselves. this is not wrong. it is good in many cases.

to achieve our dreams, to be who we want to be, to do what we want to make ourselves happy. it is very important to be focused and do what we desire.

but there are also alot of instances where importance must not be self-centered, else we fail. in a team game like soccer, everyone have their roles to play. if every player wants to score and be 'great' then the team will probably suck. in a family, if every member is only focused on their own wants and could not care about what the family members need and compromise, things will get ugly very soon. in love, where if the focus is only on what a person wants or think, then things will probably breakdown soon enough.

it's difficult for us selfish beings to think for others when we have desires to be sated. when we are not satisfied and happy yet, why should we care about others? because, in the end, it will bring about what you want. we should look ahead and think about situations where putting ourselves behind others is good for us.

if everyone play their part, the whole team, family will be better off. and ourselves, being part of it, benefits.

a game of you. graphic novel by Neil Gaiman.

Jesus said unto him, thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
this is the first and great commandment.
and the second [is] like unto it, thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.[Mat 22:37-39]

love does change how we care about ourselves.

life and such

been bombarded on many sides of life at the moment.

feeling pressure on almost everything. i want to be better to be more. but i am only human. why don't i get the respite i need?

i am spent.

God. help.

hmm..=)

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Acts of Service.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch:		11
Acts of Service:		8
Quality Time:		8
Words of Affirmation:		2
Receiving Gifts:		1

Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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SECRET!!!

singapore's purpose of purchasing submarines..

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Law of God

the law of the LORD [is] perfect, converting the soul: the testimony of the LORD [is] sure, making wise the simple.

the statutes of the LORD [are] right, rejoicing the heart: the commandment of the LORD [is] pure, enlightening the eyes.

the fear of the LORD [is] clean, enduring for ever: the judgments of the LORD [are] true [and] righteous altogether.

more to be desired [are they] than gold, yea, than much fine gold: sweeter also than honey and the honeycomb.

moreover by them is thy servant warned: [and] in keeping of them [there is] great reward.

who can understand [his] errors? cleanse thou me from secret [faults].

keep back thy servant also from presumptuous [sins]; let them not have dominion over me: then shall i be upright, and i shall be innocent from the great transgression.

let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.

有一点动心

男：我和你　男和女　都逃不过～爱情
谁愿意　有勇气　不顾一切付出真心

女：你说的　不只你　还包括我～自己
该不该再继续　该不该有回应　让爱一步一步靠近

男：我对你有一点动心　却如此害怕看你的眼睛
有那么一点点动心　一点点迟疑　不敢相信我的情不自禁

女：我对你有一点动心　不知结果是悲伤还是喜
有那么一点点动心　一点点迟疑　害怕爱过以后还要失去

合：难以抗拒 Oh～　人最怕就是动了情
虽然　不想不看也不听　却陷入爱里

合：我和你　男和女　都逃不过爱情
也许应该放心　让爱一步步靠近
ineviatable..

refuge

psalms 18

i will love thee, O LORD, my strength.
the LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer;
my God, my strength, in whom i will trust;
my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.

peace be with you. <3